In my season of separation, I learned three things.

How to build your legacy. I apply all of these things in my life. Let me show how with this amazing article from All Pro Dad. This applies to the women as well.

"The starting point of all achievement is desire" -Napoleon Hill

Repeat after me: Life is not happening to you. It’s happening for you.

Have you ever achieved something that you set out to do, and then have it taken away from you? How did you feel about yourself? Were you in despair like I was? Was your confidence shattered? Did your self-esteem drop a little, or did it crash and burn?

Self-respect: pride and confidence in oneself; a feeling that one is behaving with honor and dignity.

Self-Discipline: The ability to control one's feelings and overcome one's weaknesses; the ability to pursue what one thinks is right despite temptations to abandon it.

What keeps you going?